She really understand what she is dealing with!
Lourdes Mayes, LCSW
Experienced mental health professional
Provides online counseling through BetterHelp
At a glance
Lourdes is an experienced, licensed Mental Health Professional who specializes in affordable online therapy offered through our partner, BetterHelp.
- 4.5 stars
- Clients are very satisfied with Lourdes. View 17 reviews
- Speaks English and Spanish
- Offers Telehealth visits
- Licensed in California
Recent reviews
Lourdes is, by far, the best therapist I have worked with. I truly enjoy our sessions and I feel motivated to accomplish the goals and the work she gives me as homework. She's also understanding with my schedule and available time and we make progress according to that. But what I value the most is how insightful she is, and her capacity of finding things about myself and my story I didn't even knew or realized about. All of this together has helped me a lot in making so much progress in very short time. I'm very grateful of finding her and working with her every week.
More about Lourdes
- 16 years' experience
- Female
- LCSW
Hi, I am a bilingual English/ Spanish licensed clinical social worker in California with over 12 years of experience in the mental health field. I have the honor of working with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, grief and loss, PTSD, anger and stress management, parenting issues, and couple relationship challenges.
I strive to create a safe, non-judgemental and comfortable environment so we can work together to gain insight into the various contributions to your feelings and problems. We will work on strategies that allow you to address the root causes of your problems, improve communication skills, build empathy & respect, learn effective problem-solving & conflict resolution skills, and strengthen connection, including intimacy. Very soon you will discover yourself and about the changes you can make to propel yourself forward. As long as you are open to sharing as well as accepting what is shared with you, this process of exploring can be highly rewarding, and it will also set up for success down the road. I’m looking forward to working with you!
Specialties
Stress
Anxiety
Addictions
Grief
Anger management
Depression
LGBT
Relationship issues
Family conflicts
Trauma and abuse
Intimacy-related issues
Eating disorders
Parenting issues
Self esteem
Bipolar disorder
Coping with life changes
Coaching
Compassion fatigue
Aging and geriatric issues
Attachment issues
Codependency
Communication problems
Domestic violence
Drug and alcohol addiction
Forgiveness
Jealousy
Mood disorders
Multicultural concerns
Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
Panic disorder and panic attacks
Prejudice and discrimination
Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
Treatment Approaches
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Existential Therapy
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Licenses
Lourdes Mayes's National Provider Identifier (NPI) is 1518397736.
- LCSW · California · 76284 · Expires October 2026
About online counseling
- Affordable.
- Pay a low flat fee.
- Convenient.
- Do it at your own time and at your own pace. Communicate whenever you feel it's needed.
- Available now.
- There is no waiting list and no calls to make. Simply fill out a short questionnaire and send your first message.
Online counseling, sometimes called teletherapy, refers to talk therapy delivered remotely through digital platforms, such as video calls, phone calls, or chat. It can be a great option for people who face barriers to traditional face-to-face therapy, such as those living in remote areas, individuals with mobility issues, or people with busy schedules that make it difficult to attend in-person sessions.
Teletherapy also offers greater convenience and flexibility, allowing clients to access care from the comfort of their homes. Research shows that the treatment outcomes with online counseling are often just as effective as with traditional therapy, providing a viable alternative for individuals seeking mental health support.
Reviews for Lourdes Mayes
All reviews have been submitted by clients after seeing the provider.
Overall rating:
She really understand what she is dealing with!
Lourdes is, by far, the best therapist I have worked with. I truly enjoy our sessions and I feel motivated to accomplish the goals and the work she gives me as homework. She's also understanding with my schedule and available time and we make progress according to that. But what I value the most is how insightful she is, and her capacity of finding things about myself and my story I didn't even knew or realized about. All of this together has helped me a lot in making so much progress in very short time. I'm very grateful of finding her and working with her every week.
I feel so heard and seen and I've made such positive changes in my mindset that will benefit me for the rest of my life
I appreciate Lourdes because she is honest with me and shares with me tough love while at the same time being loving. She offers solutions and understands me and what I go through. She allows me to go at my own pace yet encourages me to grow in certain areas like boundaries because she knows it will be better for me the sooner I do the work.
Es una persona muy bien preparada y me alluda mucho en mis necesidades me sabe guiar
I find Lourdes east to talk to, a great listener. She offers great insight into my situations & I trust her completely.
I’ve had other therapists in the past but I wasn’t feeling they were the right ones for me. When I found Lourdes I felt completely comfortable talking to her, she’s very empathetic, she understands me and make me see things more clearly, she’s very amazing. Thank you Lourdes!
She is a great listener and helps me see things from a different perspective
Lourdes is a wonderful therapist. She is kind, caring, intuitive, and brings such a positive light to my life. I would highly recommend her to anyone seeking therapy!
Lourdes is an amazing therapist. She has been like a mirror in the way that she can reflect my thoughts back to me to help me grow but she has also become like my mentor and friend. I am very grateful for her. I am now a mother and the work that she helped me do has allowed me to feel confident bring a baby into this world.
Lourdes has been incredible in identifying ways to guide me towards getting to know myself better from the first moment onwards. She truly listens and cares. She makes life so much simpler; she's the perfect mentor.
Lourdes has been incredibly helpful guiding me through my life’s fluctuations. She is kind and thoughtful, but will also call me out when I’m not following my intuition.
Lourdes is an amazing counsellor. She listens and follows cues. I was blessed to have her
I’d recommend Lourdes to anyone who wishes to meet with a therapist that has a listening ear and empowers you with tools to manage your anxiety! These last few months have been a welcome journey learning to manage my anxiety and I am appreciative that Lourdes is on my team!
Lourdes is a very good counselor and she listens to me and knows what I should work on
I felt as though Lourdes knew exactly what to say to me and how to deal with my personality. She gave me some coping mechanisms to help me through a bad time and to relieve some negative thoughts and I am excited for our next session!
I have enjoyed my sessions with Lourdes. She has a lot of experiencing and is easy to talk to. Glad I decided to try better help
Frequently asked questions
Does Lourdes Mayes offer telehealth visits?
Yes. Lourdes Mayes works with clients by exchanging messages, chatting live, speaking over the phone, or video conferencing based on what works for the client at that particular time.
What language(s) does Lourdes Mayes speak?
Lourdes Mayes speaks English and Spanish.
How many years of experience does Lourdes Mayes have?
Lourdes Mayes has 16 years of experience.
Where is Lourdes Mayes licensed to practice?
Lourdes Mayes is licensed to practice in California.
Does Lourdes Mayes accept clients outside of the United States?
No, Lourdes Mayes does not accept clients outside of the United States.
Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?
Numerous studies support the effectiveness of online platforms in facilitating life changes. For instance, research published by JMIR Publications, conducted by teams from the University of Berkeley, UCSF, and SF General Hospital, found that "users of BetterHelp experienced significantly reduced depression symptom severity after engaging with the platform."
What treatment approaches does Lourdes Mayes offer?
Lourdes Mayes offers clients Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Existential Therapy, Jungian Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, and Trauma-Focused Therapy.
How can I communicate with Lourdes Mayes?
Lourdes Mayes can be engaged in any one of four ways: (1) Exchanging messages, (2) chatting live, (3) speaking over the phone, or (4) video conferencing. You can use different ways at different times as you wish, based on your needs, availability, and convenience.
How do I get started with Lourdes Mayes?
Just tap the CHAT NOW button or tap here: A new window will open and you'll be directed to a simple form that will help start the conversation. Please note: It can take up to a few days to be matched to a therapist.
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When you tap CHAT NOW a new window will open and you'll be directed to a simple form that will help start the conversation. Please note: It can take up to a few days to be matched to a therapist.