Tobias is very accommodating and prompt. He’s a good listener and he reassures me.
Tobias Wilde, LCSW
Experienced mental health professional
Provides online counseling through BetterHelp
At a glance
Tobias is an experienced, licensed Mental Health Professional who specializes in affordable online therapy offered through our partner, BetterHelp.
- 5.0 stars
- Clients are very satisfied with Tobias. View 12 reviews
- Speaks English and American Sign Language
- Offers Telehealth visits
- Licensed in North Dakota, Minnesota, and 1 more
Recent reviews
Tobias is personable, helpful and caring. Couldn’t ask for a better therapist.
More about Tobias
- 13 years' experience
- Male
- LCSW, LICSW
My name is Tobias (He/Him/His). I am a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) in Minnesota and North Dakota with 13 years of professional work experience.
I have clinical experience in helping clients with all sorts of challenges in life such as, coping with disabilities (especially with hearing loss and cerebral palsy), managing depression, intimacy related issues (more than the one type of intimacy that most people think of), overcoming less-effective coping strategies, life changing events, relationship issues, & stress and anxiety to name a few.
My therapeutic approach follows evidence-based therapeutic interventions, which include: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Person Centered/Strengths Based, Psychodynamic, Motivational Interviewing, Mindfulness, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Emotion Regulation Skills System.
I have many roles in life, in addition to being a therapist, I was born in the United States, I am white, and an English speaker. I have a minor disability since birth. I am a son and a brother in a blended family. I am also an advocate, a father, a friend, a mentor, a student of life, as well as a teacher by heart.
I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion regardless of your background, BIPOC, creed, disability, LGBTQIA+, alternative lifestyle, or religion. I also strive to be culturally affirming and respect the positive elements that all cultures can provide to a client's sense of well-being. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs.
Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage, and I am glad that you are seeking support at this time. Let's get started!
Specialties
Stress
Anxiety
Relationship issues
Intimacy-related issues
Depression
Coping with life changes
Abandonment
Attachment issues
Avoidant personality
Blended family issues
Chronic pain, illness, and disability
Co-morbidity
Codependency
Communication problems
Divorce and separation
Emptiness
Family of origin issues
Family problems
Fatherhood issues
Forgiveness
Guilt and shame
Hearing impaired
Impulsivity
Infidelity
Isolation / loneliness
Life purpose
Men's issues
Mood disorders
Multicultural concerns
Prejudice and discrimination
Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
Self-love
Sex addiction
Sexuality
Social anxiety and phobia
Visually impaired
Treatment Approaches
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Licenses
Tobias Wilde's National Provider Identifier (NPI) is 1770866485.
- LCSW · North Dakota · 5797 · Expires December 2025
- LICSW · Minnesota · 24970 · Expires January 2025
- LCSW · Utah · 14192641-3501 · Expires September 2026
About online counseling
- Affordable.
- Pay a low flat fee.
- Convenient.
- Do it at your own time and at your own pace. Communicate whenever you feel it's needed.
- Available now.
- There is no waiting list and no calls to make. Simply fill out a short questionnaire and send your first message.
Online counseling, sometimes called teletherapy, refers to talk therapy delivered remotely through digital platforms, such as video calls, phone calls, or chat. It can be a great option for people who face barriers to traditional face-to-face therapy, such as those living in remote areas, individuals with mobility issues, or people with busy schedules that make it difficult to attend in-person sessions.
Teletherapy also offers greater convenience and flexibility, allowing clients to access care from the comfort of their homes. Research shows that the treatment outcomes with online counseling are often just as effective as with traditional therapy, providing a viable alternative for individuals seeking mental health support.
Reviews for Tobias Wilde
All reviews have been submitted by clients after seeing the provider.
Overall rating:
Tobias is very accommodating and prompt. He’s a good listener and he reassures me.
Tobias is personable, helpful and caring. Couldn’t ask for a better therapist.
Takes a more structured approach which I really appreciate. Offers good advise and leaves each session with some goals and targets
Only one session, but so far, off to a great start!
Tobias seems very understanding and capable. I trust his knowledge. So far, so good.
I’ve never done therapy before. Tobias has made it as comfortable as it could possibly be.
Great therapist thus far
Tobias is a kind-hearted and insightful therapist. He is prompt, he is professional, and he is organized in my treatment. I look forward to our sessions, and I will happily continue to see him.
Tobias has good insight. I feel he has been very helpful.
I have met with Tobias 3 times now and he has been so much help. He has offered great work sheets and book book references for me go to go over between our appointments, he reviews the worksheets and offers great feedback, all with in timely manner. He really listens and has helped me in so many ways I can’t explain. I look forward to what the future holds working with him.
In just my first 2 sessions I’ve learned a great deal about myself and even more about how much I need to work on myself. I’ve regained a sense of self worth, even though I’m aware that I have much further to go. Tobias has been a true God send.
Tobias has been very helpful and through with my mental health issues. He is very knowledgeable and professional, I have actually recommend Tobias to another coworker of mine.
Frequently asked questions
Does Tobias Wilde offer telehealth visits?
Yes. Tobias Wilde works with clients by exchanging messages, chatting live, speaking over the phone, or video conferencing based on what works for the client at that particular time.
What language(s) does Tobias Wilde speak?
Tobias Wilde speaks English and American Sign Language.
How many years of experience does Tobias Wilde have?
Tobias Wilde has 13 years of experience.
Where is Tobias Wilde licensed to practice?
Tobias Wilde is licensed to practice in North Dakota, Minnesota, and Utah.
Does Tobias Wilde accept clients outside of the United States?
No, Tobias Wilde does not accept clients outside of the United States.
Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?
Numerous studies support the effectiveness of online platforms in facilitating life changes. For instance, research published by JMIR Publications, conducted by teams from the University of Berkeley, UCSF, and SF General Hospital, found that "users of BetterHelp experienced significantly reduced depression symptom severity after engaging with the platform."
What treatment approaches does Tobias Wilde offer?
Tobias Wilde offers clients Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Solution-Focused Therapy, and Trauma-Focused Therapy.
How can I communicate with Tobias Wilde?
Tobias Wilde can be engaged in any one of four ways: (1) Exchanging messages, (2) chatting live, (3) speaking over the phone, or (4) video conferencing. You can use different ways at different times as you wish, based on your needs, availability, and convenience.
How do I get started with Tobias Wilde?
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When you tap CHAT NOW a new window will open and you'll be directed to a simple form that will help start the conversation. Please note: It can take up to a few days to be matched to a therapist.